How A Pitbull Named Zoe Changed A Mans Outlook On Life

A Man Writes A Future Letter About His Pet Pitbull To His Baby Girl

An great letter from a baby girls dad he wrote for her to read when she is older about his pitbull named Zoe. The family adopted the dog as a puppy from the pound. They told him it was a lab mix. He soon found out as it grew it was actually a pitbull. He was ashamed he had let one of these vicious breeds into his house. At this point he still had notion that pitbulls were evil. He nearly returned the dog but Zoe amazingly not only changed his view of the breed but changed his view on the world and its stereotypes of people. He wrote this letter to his baby to tell her about Zoe and how she changed his life. He wanted the valuable lessons he learned to be spread to his daughter. Heartwarming letter!

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Dear River,

I want to tell you a story about your dog, Zoe. We found her cowering at the pound. She wasn’t barking like the other dogs. She was simply laying there, looking up at us. The tag said, “lab mix” and she was slated to be killed in a week. We fell for it, thinking we were buying a lab.

As Zoe grew, we came to realize the pound had lied. I was scared. I felt irresponsible for letting this type of dog into my home. All of the stereotypes, preconceptions and worries filled my mind. Should I take her back? What would people think of us?

When first time guests visit we lock her in her cage, not because she is dangerous, but because of unspoken fears.

You can almost hear them thinking:

“Should I pet her?”

“Don’t look her in the eye!” (something we are all told not to do with Pit Bulls.)

Then Zoe goes to work breaking down walls. She knows what she needs to do. When people visit, she locks on my queues. I put my fingers by my side and snap. That’s all she needs. She rolls on her side, exposes her belly and shows the room that she knows her place, that she is safe to be around.

River, imagine a life of assumed mistrust and immediate barriers. Guilty until proven innocent. Imagine the tentative, wary interactions that would fill your day. This is Zoe’s life.

Yet, as a pit bull she is stubborn to prove them wrong. We brought you home from the hospital and her strong, gentle spirit shined. She sniffed you twice, glanced at me for approval then laid at your feet.

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As a middle class white girl, you won’t experience life like Zoe. People won’t cross the street to avoid you.

River, you will encounter many people like Zoe as you grow, and you always have a choice. You can either embrace them or shut them out. Beautiful, strong, caring, and lovely people are all around.

Zoe is a pit bull, that’s a fact. A few years ago I stopped thinking of her as a pit bull, however, and started thinking of her as simply my dog. I stopped defining her by her breed and started defining her by her species.

The same goes for people. Before there is white, black, muslim, and christian, there is human. Individual dogs. Individual humans. Individuals with fears, hopes, dreams, pains, and loves.

Pursue holistic love and respect for every person. Sure, you may need to search out individuality and humanity to make a connection, but never stop there. Press on to marvel at the beautiful and unique characteristics of the whole person.

River, like Zoe, you can be a hurricane of peace. You have the power to build a bridge, to destroy fears, and to weave harmony into the fabric of your community.

Unleash your inner pit bull.

– Love Dad

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